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How
long are you going to live in
my cell phone or in my email box?
Ladies
whatever happened to the dating scene, like getting
together with the man or actually hearing his voice
over the phone. Has this become something of the
past or is it too much to ask for. I think as we have become more connected to all this
technology, we've become more disconnected socially
and physically. I don't understand this text madness
guys do. (I am not saying women do not do it but
today it's about men). They'll get your
number, MAYBE make one or two phone calls and then
resort to text only. I've had so many guys say
"I really want to spend time with you",
"I really want to see you", "I really
like talking to you" but ask me if they ever
actually attempted to "see me, spend time with
me or call me", only the sporadic text message
saying they want to. I even love the ones they never
text your name it is always babe or hun. Is this men’s
new little black book to the higher power.
The best is when they comment that they love talking to you when in
actuality they never had, its all words in this tiny
device.
My men live in my computer or in my cell phone.
Why
do these men waste their time and ours? Do
they find this entertaining? Are they who they
really say they are? Do they really look like their
pictures? I really start to wonder.
Many have learned to hide behind all this
technology.
So
ladies what do we do. First of all we women need to
set some rules and weed out all the men who are just
not that serious. If you are interested in a man
online and they start emailing you and you are
emailing them back that is a good start. We do want
to get to know each other first but then the time
factor of emailing should be very short. Now it is
time to offer them your phone number and tell them
to call you, of course if you are interested. Being
direct will let them know this is the next step. Now
if they send you a text rather than calling you, you
have a choice to answer it or not. Ladies a
piece of advice, if and when they decide to finally
text you and if they text you at 11 pm in the
evening or later, look at the text but do NOT answer
back. A man should not text you that late,
especially a man you have never met or haven't
spoken to before. So text them back the next day and
let them know you turn off your phone after 11. The
strategy here is to get them to call and to let them
know you do not tolerate or entertain late night
text. I know we can be direct and tell them “hey
call me - I gave you my number”, but it would be
nice to see if they can figure this out for
themselves. Ladies when a man is truly interested in
you and really wants to get to know you, he will do
the right thing. He will take the right steps. If
the men are about play or we may even give them the
benefit of the doubt to say they are slow movers.
Ladies You have a choice to take the steps
with him or just not allow it at all. The power of
the internet and cell phones is the delete button.
One click and poof they are gone! Lets make the
right choices for ourselves and in the long run we
will have less men living in our emails and in our
cell phones.
Cyber
world bites but ladies it time to bite back!
Article
written by - Mia Florides
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